James Whiting

Whiting James

James Whiting, 93, of Yankton, passed away Wednesday April 2, 2025, at the Avera Sacred Heart Hospital in Yankton. A private committal of James’ cremated remains will take place at a later date. Opsahl-Kostel Funeral Home and Onsite Crematory is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences may be sent at www.opsahl-kostelfuneralhome.com .

He was born on September 24, 1931, in Rich Hill, Missouri, to Max and Edythe Whiting. James was the older brother of Dorothy Haupt, who, along with their parents, preceded him in death.

James served honorably as a Sergeant in the Korean War, demonstrating courage and commitment in service to his country. After returning home, he dedicated his professional life to public service, working in various roles within the federal government before retiring from the Office of Personnel Management.

In the 1960s, James actively worked to ensure voting rights for all during the civil rights movement, a cause that reflected his deep sense of justice, equality, and belief in democratic values.

In 1969, James married Mary Haley, and together they raised three daughters: Suzee, Laura, and Amy.

In 1974, James moved from Chicago, Illinois, to Kansas City, Missouri, where he embraced a new chapter.

In July of 2002, he married Cynthia in Churchill, Manitoba Canada, sharing a loving partnership and welcoming two stepchildren, Bryan and Eric, into his life.

James was known for his curious mind and warm heart. He especially enjoyed working on oil leases in Kansas—an experience he found both challenging and rewarding.  A lifelong learner, he delighted in reading, traveling, and music, and had a deep appreciation for theater and film. He loved sharing his interests and music with his children and relished the fun of mind games, crossword puzzles, and discovering new ideas. He was a man of quiet wisdom, gentle humor, and deep kindness, whose presence brought comfort and strength to those around him.

He is survived by his wife, Cynthia; daughters Suzee, Laura, and Amy; stepchildren Bryan and Eric; and his beloved grandchildren: Haley, Nathan, Audrey, Sophy, Avary, Zackary, Joshua, Michael, and Caitlyn. He also leaves behind many nieces and nephews.

James will be laid to rest with military honors at Fort Scott National Cemetery in Fort Scott, Kansas, a place of honor befitting a life of service, love, and integrity.